Is an older, dominant woman your ideal girl? Then you may just find your Dream Cougar in this website.

The site is Cougared.com, an online guide to the "cougars and cubs" dating phenomenon: the modern older woman-younger man relationship.

http://cougared.com

Age range for men: 18-39
Age range for women: 35+

What is a cougar?

[[url=http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cougar]from the Urban Dictionary[/url]]

"A 35+ year old female who is on the "hunt" for a much younger, energetic, willing-to-do-anything male. The cougar can frequently be seen in a padded bra, cleavage exposed, propped up against a swanky bar in San Francisco (or other cities)waiting, watching, calculating; gearing up to sink her claws into an innocent young and strapping buck who happens to cross her path. "Man is cougar's number one prey"

The cougar can be anyone from an overly surgically altered wind tunnel victim, to an absolute sad and bloated old horn-meister, to a real hottie or milf. Cougars are gaining in popularity -- particularly the true hotties -- as young men find not only a sexual high, but many times a chick with her shit together."

[b]Pinoy version?[/b]
The site appears to be mostly American. I wonder... is this possible in the Philippine scene? A dating site where older Filipinas or matronas can meet young Pinoy studs (like me?)

[b]How does it feel to go out with Cougars?[/b]
Let me tell you a story. I have a professional contact named Aida. She's separated from a Filipin-Chinese businessman, but he let her manage his provincial radio station which has an office in Makati.

She must have been around 40 to 43 (it's impolite to ask a woman her age, specially if it's obvious that she's older) and I was around 28 when we would go out to talk about business, and sometimes just to unwind after work. She would fetch me in her Mercedes, then we would dine in hotels and expensive restaurants. (Yes, she pays, she's a cougar).

She is well connected (congressmen and contractors), and she power-dresses (mostly suits). It was always intimidating walking beside her because she is really very pretty -- chinita-hispanic combined, and we would get stares when I am seated in the table with her. It's like people thinking I'm her young boyfriend.

Going out with a cougar takes sophistication. You should be good in conversation, be well groomed yourself, and you must know etiquette. Cougars are dominant women, so you should be able to handle this with suave. You cannot be timid with a Cougar. You've got to be a Jaguar.